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✨The Role Model Mother's role in training children!

Training of children in adolescence:

The mother plays a role to train her children in such a way that they should love good things and be disgusted with bad things from childhood. May the child become spoiled and grow up to do something.

Like the father, the mother is also an ideal figure for the children, our most important need today is that mothers should pay attention to the education and training of their children by following the life of the Companions and the righteous people so that our society becomes the cradle of the Sunnah.

Also, the mother should narrate to her children the stories of the Messenger of Allah, may God bless him and grant him peace, the Companions of the Prophet, peace, and blessings of God be upon him, and the Salaf and the righteous, may God have mercy on him, so that the love of these great personalities is imprinted in their hearts from childhood. They should try to adopt their holy way of life.

The mother should remember the father's name and home address, and contact number as soon as the children can go out of the house so that God willing, if they ever lose their way or get lost, it is possible to reach home.

When the daughter is a little older, wear a scarf and if she is a little older, wear a small burqa so that she can get used to the Sharia veil when she grows up.

Introducing the real creator to the child:

The mother should try to strengthen the child's faith from childhood, not scare him with dogs, cats, or jinn ghosts, but whenever there is something, put the image of God in the child's mind that son! Allah likes this work and He does not like it, etc. The child will ask who is Allah the Almighty? So now tell him that he who created the whole world, we are all servants of Allah, in this way the faith of the child will be strong.

✨Get kids used to cleanliness from the beginning:

The mother should make the child accustomed to cleanliness from childhood and tell him that Allah loves those who are clean. In summer, if possible, bathe the child daily, if the clothes are dirty, change them immediately, never leave the bed unclean, clean it immediately and take special care of the cleanliness of the children.

✨ Lying in front of children is fatal:

Lying is indeed a great sin, but lying in front of children is very deadly. In front of the children, whose parents lie, if someone comes to the door, they tell the children that there is no one at home, etc., something is not far away, they should go ahead and lie to the same parents.

✨Be sure to pray for the children:

A mother's hard work and her prayers have a lot to do with the Madani training of children. Mother's prayers have a special place of acceptance as

Sight returned:

Imam Muhammad bin Ismail Bukhari (may Allah have mercy on him) became blind in his childhood. The mother of Rehmatullah Taala alaihi was a pious woman. Brighten my son's eyes. One night, he was visited by the beloved Prophet of Allah, Hazrat Sayyiduna Ibrahim Ali Nabiinna was Alaihi Salawat wa Sallam, in a dream, and he said: Allah, the Exalted, has enlightened the eyes of your son because of your crying and supplications. When Imam Bukhari (may Allah have mercy on him) got up from bed in the morning, his eyes were bright.

(Isha'at al-Lama'at, Vol. 1, p. 10)

✨Don't let children's fights go to adults:

Children are children, they fight while playing and the next moment they become one again, the mother should act impartially in the children's fight and not blame other children but see whose fault it is, her child's. Make a mind to apologize to others for the mistake and explain that whenever a mistake is made, you should ask for forgiveness. Mothers who scold the other's child even though it is their child's fault and unfairly ignores their child's fault, many times the fights of these children reach from the little ones to the adults, which causes great damage.

Responsibilities of mother in educational matters:

Some mothers are adamant that their children will study in such and such an institution, while the children's father or other elders forbid, knowing the failures of this institution or the lack of religious education, so the mother should not act stubbornly. Rather, the mother should also give good advice to the children's fathers for their children's education and training and character building and properly explain them.

Children should not be burdened with their wishes, and their mental balance should also be checked. Especially if the child is interested in religious education, it is a source of great happiness and good in this world and the hereafter.

✨ Mothers play a role in Children's Private Lives:

The relationship between mother and children is different in many aspects, one of which is that children can do many things with the mother but not with the father, so the mother should take advantage of such opportunities to teach them the right way. Give advice and try to give the right guidance.

The father takes care of the affairs of the sons, but about the daughters, the mother should be more careful about the kind of girls they are friends with. Many kinds of trials are faced.

Mothers often have plays a role in choosing relationships for their children, not only worldly wealth and high jobs should be preferred, but a good moral and religious and correct family as well as the children's consent should be given first priority.