How to Teach Children at Home ? Learn the Key Points.

 How to teach children at home?

A sitting with Apa Umm Abd Munib

( key points)

How to teach newborn children?

When the child is born, whenever you put something in his mouth, read Bismillah and put it. Make it a routine. 

This is called team, in this way whenever Bismillah is recited, the child will know that I have started getting some food. 

Thus, it will become a habit to say Bismillah before eating or drinking something.

In addition to Masnoon Azhar, the child should be read the parts of the Qur'an and the prayers he/she remembers while going to sleep. 

The child is storing this information in himself that it is necessary to read this before going to sleep, only then will he fall asleep.

In the same way, if the dua to go to the toilet is said, the child will become a habit and he will do this dua as soon as he hears it. 

According to Apa ji, nowadays children are given pampers, but she used to take small children to the toilet too, and reciting dua before entering would become a routine for the child and he would do it as soon as he heard it.

 

In the same way, all Masnoon Azkars should be recited in front of the children like riding dua. Arrangement of prayers while dressing and undressing etc

When the child is six months old, give him a newspaper or some spare piece of paper and read La ilaha illa Allah along with it, let the child tear the paper or do anything, it will develop his relationship with the book. 

Especially from the Holy Quran. This is how to familiarize the child with the Quran and its recitation. If a child teases the Quran, it is not rude at all.

Take the child in your lap and recite the Qur'an. The recitation of the Qur'an can also be done, but it is better to do it yourself.

 

In our country, small children are not taken to the mosque, but according to Apaji, her husband used to arrange that when the newborn child was being taken outside the house for the first time, he would take him to the mosque first. 

He would carry it in his lap and pray; if there was time, he would recite it there. This is the way to get familiar with the mosque. (Explanation. 

This is not a Sunnah method, but it is an auxiliary method, it will have a good effect, God willing)

  How to play with small children?

Opening the fingers of the children's hands one by one and reading their names in Arabic like opening the smallest finger and saying "Khansari" and opening the next finger and saying "Bangsar" and then opening the longest finger. 

And said "Middle" then opened the index finger and said its Arabic name "Sababah" then opened the thumb and said its name "Abraham".

In this way, the child was playing with and the name was also learned. Similarly, Arabic counting can also be recited along with opening the fingers.

Names of body parts and other objects or animals can be said in Urdu, Arabic, and English.

Reading Tala-ul-Badr Alina to the children while swinging the cradle on the knee. Sports and education as well.

Whenever the child is bathed, it should be washed in the Masnoon method so that the child learns this method and he will bathe in the same Masnoon manner later.

When the child is nine months old, keep a book in front of him, for example, A to Allah and B to Bait Allah. Read them to him. If there are twenty-five words in the rule, then the child will surely memorize ten.

A two-and-a-half-year-old child should be given a mallet and asked to separate one for each person in the house. When he separates two or three, ask him whether they are more or the one from which they were separated. In this way, the calculation will come

While praying, the child should stand with him and recite the prayer in a loud voice. A two-and-a-half-year-old child will remember the entire prayer.

How to protect children from mobile phones?

Housewives should not keep the mobile in their hands but keep it somewhere high and listen only. 

Do not use it in front of children. When the children sleep, do the necessary work on it. Another way is to use a mobile phone with normal buttons to listen and make calls. 

Switch off the smartphone. Use it only when it works.

Family practice is that at eight at night, everyone turns off their mobile phones and puts them in the basket, and retrieves them at eight in the morning. During this time the home phone is used.

How to keep kids busy?

As a child, think about how our mothers kept us busy (when there were no mobile phones, etc.) and do the same with them.

Children are happy to play in the mud, it should not be stopped. Allah Almighty has placed very healthy ingredients in the soil, and the child's pores absorb these ingredients. 

The children who are weak despite eating everything are because of being away from the soil. Man and the soil have a very old relationship.

To keep children busy, give them dishes to wash like some plates, etc. Children are also busy and work gradually comes.

Children should be asked to do various household chores, for example, setting the table. Keeping food utensils. etc

If any machinery breaks down, don't throw it away. Give the children a screw and tell them to open it and remove the working part from it and then put it back together.

When the girls turn four or five years old, put a needle and thread in their hands and teach them how to button.

How to start teaching children?

Read the book to the children, the child will want to read the whole book and he will listen to it again and again. When he can read something on his own, Farfar will read it because after hearing it so many times, he will learn it.